CONSCIOUS DATE NIGHTS
Experience. Conscious. Connection.
CONSCIOUS DATE NIGHTS offer a whole new entry to the dating world. It is a fun way to explore attractions on a much deeper level.
We all long for a more conscious way to connect and relate.
We want to communicate beyond “what´s your name” and “what do you do?”.
To talk about what really matters and show ourselves as we really are.
And we are longing for meeting other authentic beings.
Regardless of whether you wish to just experience a fun evening full of solidarity, looking for a deep friendship or a longterm relationship - it all starts with you being connected to your desire for connection and starting to meet other people with an open heart.
With this event we create a field in which it is possible to explore attraction on a mental, physical, energetic and spiritual level. It is a unique opportunity to meet other wonderful people mindfully and with an open heart.
Come, laugh and explore!
This most likely isn't like any other dating experience you've had. It´s new, it´s different, it´s real!
If you want something you never had,
it might help
to do something you never did.
What's the point?
> You have the chance to break old "dating patterns": Who are you behind the titles and the
superficial masks you normally put on at a typical first date?
> You learn to stay connected with yourself, also in contact with others.
> You get to know many exciting and interesting people in one evening.
> You learn to be spontaneous and authentic without having to plan what to say beforehand.
> It will change the way you perceive relationships.
> Your existing connections and friendships will also benefit and be inspired.
> You will experience that closeness, connectedness, joy and excitement are not just happening by
chance, but that you and others are creating it in open and honest synergy.
> You have the opportunity to feel gently into the energies of the people you meet and to use your
5 senses to get into contact.
You definitely don´t want to miss this experience!
Dating is about gathering data:
about the other
and about the two of you together.
Before we move into the actual dating and get to encounter each other, we will first focus on getting in touch with ourselves. Only when we are connected to ourselves can we meet other people authentically and feel whether we are a good match or not.
The CONSCIOUS DATE NIGHT is an interesting variation of the classic speed dating.
The setting will consist of 2 circles facing each other - an inner circle and an outer one.
Each person from one circle will have an experience with a person from the other circle. Then we rotate to the next person and the next dating experience until everyone has met.
Some instructions, an exercise or a topic to talk about breaks the ice and you can easily get to know, experience and feel eachother beyond the traditional small talk of “where are you from?” And “what are you doing?”.
After the individual encounters, we will meet again for the final circle.
At the end of the evening there is a secret "matching process" in which you let us know who you would like to meet again after this evening.
A few days later, you will receive an email with the contact details of your mutual match (es).
Then it's up to you ...
The flow of the evening
> Agreements and creating a safe container
> Meditation and centering yourself
> Conscious Speed Dating
> Closing and secret matching
Intimacy is not about uncovering the body,
it happens when we dare to show our naked souls.
Is this for me?
The event is for ...
... everyone who desires more authentic connections in their life
... everyone who likes to meet others beyond the "common games"
... everyone who enjoys to get to know new people in an authentic, open way
... everyone who wants to enjoy without expectation
... everyone who is ready to show up as who they really are
... everyone who wants to practice staying connected to themselves while meeting others
... everyone who understands honesty as an essential base for good relationships and real intimacy
... everyone who wants to experience and explore love
... everyone between 25 and 55. (We are planning events with narrower age groups for the future)
... all genders and orientations.
Love people for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
Although this event primarily aims for matching men with women and women with men, it is certainly open to everyone. Participants will be connected based on the sex that they are representing, but we will not discriminate against any expressions.
For most of the exercises, you will have a partner of the opposite sex. Depending on the number of registrations, it is also possible that you will meet someone of the same sex during one or two encounters.
Regardless of your orientation, I generally invite you to be open to encounters that initially do not correspond to your ideal.
I encourage that if you do desire same-sex connections as well to feel open to communicating, using your voice to empower yourself. (There is potential to create a LGBTQ event in the future, so if this resonates with you please send me a personal message.)
Relationship forms such as polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy and other expressions of interpersonal connection are very common. Nevertheless, many of the CONSCIOUS DATE NIGHT participants are monoamorous or monogamous. We encourage you - if it doesn't already happen in an exercise - to talk about your lived / preferred form of relationship in order to avoid disappointment.
Come with a clear head, a playfull attitude and the willingness to open your heart.
I´m looking forward to diving into this experience with you!